Mistress Dating Site
Many subs have BDSM relationships with their Dominant, but they are not 'dating' their Mistress. However, if you are looking for a Mistress, Dominatrix or FemDom for something a little more serious, being in a BDSM relationship can be a truly amazing experience.
Having spoken to many of our members, when people say they are looking for a Mistress dating site, they are actually say one of several things; 1) they want to be an adult fun submissive 2) they want to be a 24/7 full time submissive, 3) they want to find a Mistress and have a relationship in and out of their BDSM lifestyle, or 4) they’re a newbie, unsure what they want and fancy dipping their toe in the waters.
You see for the uninitiated they may assume a Mistress/sub relationship is exclusive, meaning a Mistress will always have one sub. This is not always true! It’s worth considering what you want, and in some cases, choosing one of the options listed above will lead to another. Newbies need to consider; a Mistress will train their submissives to serve them. This can include domestic chores and service as well as fun and kink aspects of the salve's lives. On the other hand some Mistresses may expect their submissives to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other tasks that would once have been taken for granted, taking control of everything their submissive does.
Regardless of what you're looking for, we'd recommend joining Subs-And-Doms.com because we've made it easy to talk to the community about these issues and meet local Mistresses who may be able to offer what you're looking for. Remember - don't be worried about asking questions, being open and upfront is importing in avoiding disappointment. And most importantly of all, enjoy your experience!
Find A Local Mistress
Having a local Mistress as a sub is one of the joys of life! Being able to drop in to see your Mistress for a BDSM session after finishing a hard day's work is a fantastic way to unwind. Or sometimes you may just fancy a good spanking (there’s nothing wrong with that) and having the ability to call your Mistress and beg for a session off the cuff is perfect.
Many people would be surprised at just how many local Mistresses there are; you just don't know what goes on behind closed doors!
Mistress Near Me
You've asked the question; ‘is it possible to find a Mistress Near Me?’ Well unless you live in a hut in the middle of nowhere then the chances are very high that we can find you what you need. We have a great search facility that allows you to see all Mistresses near you. Maybe you're looking for something a bit different, then why not ask members in our BDSM community - they are helpful like that and will hopefully be able to recommend a Mistress to you. Contact a local Mistress on Subs-And-Doms.com, let her know you can't find a Mistress nearby, and she may be able to recommend another Mistress unlisted on the site. It’s all about who you know and making those BDSM contacts. So irrespective of what kind of Mistress you are looking for, you shouldn't have a problem finding them on Subs-And-Doms.com, or at the very least, you'll speak to someone who will be able to point you in the right direction.
'No pain no gain' is the would-be motto of many serious Mistresses. A serious Mistress knows exactly how to push the boundaries in just the right way. Now we’re not just talking about some tie and tease session, if you want a serious Dominatrix or a serious Mistress for a seriously hardcore BDSM session that is what you get. Search for Serious Mistresses once you join the site, if you have not already done so. If this is the first time you want to find a serious Mistress, then speak to a Serious Mistress, or Dominatrix about what it entails and ensure clear boundaries are set out if you meet. It’s also useful to speak to non-dominates about their experiences if it's your first time. Oh, and most importantly enjoy yourself!