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Submissive Dating Site

There are many questions around Submissive Dating! And here’s a big one: Are you even a Submissive? Do you want to become a Submissive? Or are you a Dominant looking for a Submissive? If so, you are in the right place, but there is an underlying point I'd like to make. When some people say they are interested in using a Submissive dating site, what do they actually mean? Are you saying you just want a BDSM session? Do you want BDSM on tap? Then how about becoming a Full-Time Submissive? Or when looking for a Submissive dating site, are you looking for a Femdom maybe, to become an adult fun Submissive? It’s a whole minefield of questions!

Unless you're a full-time Submissive, it's fair to say both Dominants and Subs do have relationships outside of their BDSM lifestyles. It's reasonable to assume because a Dominant and sub can build such a close relationship that this can lead to a relationship outside of the BDSM lifestyle. There is a lot to consider, but we've tried to make it as easy as possible for you. Here at Subs-And-Doms.com we have a community of all kinds of local Dominants and Submissives who are looking to meet, be it for some session of bondage or to be an adult fun Submissive. Get chatting to the community and check out some of the local Dominants and Submissives on offer.

Submissive Men

All Submissive men can't be put into a single group. What one Submissive man might like, another might not. He might like something totally different. There is no set rule for everyone. In general terms, Submissive men have a desire of losing control in some way shape or form. Submissive men generally crave for attention from the Dominant. They want to feel the interest of the Dominant and to be rewarded or punished if they have done something right or wrong. If you're a Submissive man, you'll like to be used and humiliated, like a plaything for the Dominant. While there are always limits and boundaries, it can still be a lot of fun. Join our BDSM community now to meet Dominants and other Submissives.

Submissive Women

What type of Submissive woman are you looking for? What kind of things do you want to do? Finding Submissive women in your area can lead to a great BDSM relationship, and if you have that kind of sub/dom relationship then your Submissive little plaything is only a phone call away.

Sub Seeking Dom

In the past, being a sub seeking a Dom was no easy task. There was the job of finding a Dom in the first place, then there was the task of getting the right Dom and both being compatible. Now, with the internet and BDSM sites such as Subs-And-Doms.com it's much easier! The first thing you want to know is what Doms are near you. You'll then need to look to see what type of activities the Dom will cater for – you want to choose the right one for you! Start speaking in our BDSM community to other subs, or just check in to hear of new experiences. Once you have a short list of Doms and have taken a look at their profiles and pictures, start to chat with them. Build up an online relationship with the Dom, ask questions, share content including photos and videos, let the Dom know what your hard limits are and what you do and do not expect. Then you're ready to meet. If you discover you're not compatible during your encounter (or before), then don't worry, come back and look for another dom. The best thing about seeking a Dom online is that you can do it all in the comfort of your armchair.

Submissive Chat

Whether you're a Submissive or a Dominant, you can chat in our BDSM community - it's a great place to get advice and hear stories from other subs and Dominants. Share photos to get new ideas or just watch videos. Being able to speak with others is also a form of aftercare, so don't be shy, everything goes and nothing is a surprise!