Submissive Dating Site
There are many questions around Submissive Dating, such as, are you a submissive?
Do you want to become a submissive? Or are you a Dominant looking for a submissive? If so, you are in the right place, but there is an underlying point I'd like to make.
When some people, and its not uncommon, say they are interested in using a submissive dating site, what do they actually mean? I ask this question because subs who are collared
are already in BDSM Relationships - what more are you looking for? Are you saying you want more than just a BDSM session? Do you want BDSM on tap? Then how about becoming a Full-Time submissive? OR when looking for a submissive dating site, are you looking for a Femdom maybe, to become a sex submissive?
Unless you're a full-time submissive, it's fair to say both Dominants and subs do have relationships outside of their BDSM lifestyles. It's reasonable to assume because a Dominant and sub can build such a close relationship that that relationship can lead to a relationship outside of the BDSM lifestyle. There is a lot to consider, but we've made it much easier for you. Here at Subs-And-Doms we have a community of all kinds of local Dominants and submissives who are looking to meet be it for some session of bondange or to be a sex submissive. Get chatting to the community, checkout local Dominants and submissives and meet.
All submissive men can't be put into a single group. What one submissive man might like, another may like something totally different. There is no set rule for everyone. In general terms, submissive men have a desire of losing control in some way shape or form. Submissive men generally crave for attention from the Dominant. Subs want to feel the interest of the Dominant and to be rewarded if or punished in some way if they have done something right or wrong. If you're a submissive man, you'll like to be used and humiliated. But generally, the submissive wants to feel that the Dominant really wants to play with them and wants to feel some uncertainty about how far the Dominant will eventually go. But there are always hard limits which are set. Join our BDSM community now to meet Dominants and other submissives.
Find Submissive Women
What type of submissive woman are you looking for? What kind of scene do you want to do? Finding Submissive women in your area can lead to a great BDSM relationship, it only takes a phone call to get your submissive to come around in next to no time.
Sub Seeking Dom
In the past, being a sub seeking a Dom was no easy task. There was the job of finding a Dom in the first place, then there was the task of getting the right Dom and both being compatible. The good news is now it's much easier if you're a sub seeking Dom because you have the internet and BDSM sites such as Subs-And-Doms. The first thing you want to know is what Dom's are near you. You'll then need to look to see what type of activities the Dom will cater for. Start speaking in our BDSM community to other subs, or just check in to hear of new experiences. Once you have a short list of Doms and have taken a look at their profiles and pictures, start to chat with them. Build up an online relationship with the Dom, ask questions, share content including photos and videos, let the Dom know what your hard limits are and what you do and do not expect. Then you're ready to meet. If you discover you're not compatible during the scene (or before), then don't worry, come back and look for another dom. The best thing about seeking a Dom online is that you can do it all in the comfort of your armchair.
Whether you're a submissive or a Dominant, you can chat in our BDSM community - it's a great place to get advice and hear stories from other subs and Dominants. Share photos to get new ideas for a scene or watch videos. Being able to speak with others is also a form of aftercare, so don't be shy, everything goes and nothing is a surprise.